Sunday, March 1, 2009

He's just not that into me...

Last Sunday, I was at home bored to death, but still exhausted from the family meeting bout my brother's tunang the previous day. So, I did my daily 'at home' regime...~EEEEEEEEEE-channel...ofcourse...

uggh it was one of those behind the scene of movies thing...really not interested... I want to watch E-news!!! atleast something about taylor swift or miley or jonas or even rihanna... anything....just anything... living under the coconut shell in lembah beringin,i'm deprived from real gossip... *sigh*

At first, i thought it was gonna be one of those typical romantic comedy that can never beat 50 first dates, Never Been Kissed, and Sleepless in Seattle.... it IS a typical romantic comedy from the look of it But somehow bits from the movie was not disappointing... it had loads of famous actors and actresses.... look!!!



Drew Barrymore.Ben Affleck.Jennifer Aniston.Justin Long(that dude from that bruce willis movie what something 4.0).Scarlet Johannsen(yaozaaa).Jennifer Connely.n few others very familiar faces like the guy who played Sydney Bristow's dear friend from ALIAS...and another girl who I thought was Dr. Cameron from HOUSE...turned out was not her...hehe

See...with a delicious ensemble like that...you probably are either plain cold or trying too hard to be macho not to watch it...

However, it is not just the cast that glued me to the idiot box to watch the behind the scenes special for full 30 minutes, it is also the storyline...more like complicated storyline... well its not that complicated.. what can you expect? there's a bunch of people. with each having a story to tell... compile it together and then some are related with each other... bla blah blahh blahhh... the way it present itself is pretty smart... i.like.it.

So, it made me ponder about the title of the movie... He's just not that into you....
it sounds familiar...i can relate to it..harhar... for example....

I.like.Jensen Ackles. yup the hotter one in Supernatural , with those abs...yaozaa...
but obviously he's not into me...duh!!!
see how i can relate to the movie... huwaaaaa....sedeyla....

I.also.like.milo.ventimiglia. as jess from gilmore girls..long before he was peter petrelli berambut nelnel...obviously not into me...thank god he's not into hayden pannetiere anymore...


I.also.like.brad pitt. but he's not into me...well, maybe he is but cuma die sibok kene jaga banyak babies...yup yup that's the reason why he can't actually show he's into me... ;) weeeee.....


enough yapping...but seriously how do we really know that someone is into you???There's no way to know for sure if a guy/girl likes you unless you ask him/her (and even then he/she could get shy and say no!)

so as usual, being a loyal googler....i pun google!!!!

jeng jeng jeng....this is the result...plus i tokok tambah to my taste...haha

How to know if someone is into you???

1.Is this person "accidentally" running into you in places where he or she knows you will be, such as at your desk?it is definitely one of the signs that he/she likes you...

2. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question. Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you...if yes, there must be something...

3.Examine his/her body language. If he/she likes you, you may see that he/she rarely turns his/her back to you, often leans towards you, and also looks at you a lot.

4.
Notice his/her eye contact. If he/she likes you, he/she may either look away quickly if he/she is shy, or he/she'll try to catch your eye and hold it or make faces. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him/her.(haha teringat seorang rakan saya yang tidak dikenal pasti...ada orang suka dia...tapi dia tak suka orang tuh...lepas itu, die rase geli...tak boleh pandang pun muke si die...klakar klakar) When he/she's around you and he/she says/does something funny and everyone around laughs, his/her eyes will flicker towards you for a second to see if you laughed, too.

  • hah yang ini klakar habis~His/her pupils dilate if he/her likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, (jenuh sungguh nak menengok anak mata dia...kalau mata dia sepet...lagi susah..)and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his/her eyes. (memang gila la hang) If you're around him/her for a long time, it could be easier to pick up on gradually.

5.Watch his/her actions around other girls/guys and see if he/she treats you differently.

6.Watch for him/her showing interest in things you like and do

7.Pay attention to his/her friends. If they know he/she's interested in you, they might tease him/her subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him/her. Study their reactions to your presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him/her? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don't?

8.nak tahu dia suka anda ke tak....? buat experiment ini...macam buat chemistry practical plak...

theCLOCKtest:

Objective: To see if a guy/girl has been checking you out



Procedure:

1.abruptly look at the clock at the wall in ur class


2. then alihkan pandangan secepat mungkin and look at him/her really fast.


Hypothesis: If he/she followed your eyes to the clock, he/she was staring at you and was startled by your sudden movement that following your eyes is a reflex to them.





results: so i buat this test dalam kelas... nak try out... tapi dalam kelas tu sebenarnya takdek pun calon yang i ada rase ape2...tapi nak try je kan.. bukankah ilmu tiada gunanya jika tidak diamalkan????? wah kata2 penuh makna seorang ex-naqibat...hehe...



So, saya pun termenung ke arah jam bulat(ke petak ntah tak ingat heee)tergantung atas dinding... pastu tetibe pandang seorang ni....ummph dia x pandang pun saya...dah la tu tengah dengar khusyuk kepada seorang gadis ini...haih...hampa....



selepas itu, saya pandang lagi jam, dan abruptly pandang this one guy, dan rupanya bukan dia pandang saya, sebenarnya dia pun pandang jam bulat itu, tak sabar menanti kelas tamat gamaknya...haih...hampeh..



dan saya pandang la lagi jam itu,pandang punya pandang punya pandang tetibe... dan dah bersiap sedia nak pandang mangsa ketiga....



Wan Nur Amira, are you ok???




bedebuk...tersentak saya...cikgu memanggil saya...adoyai...kantoi...


tapi nasib baik, cikgu saya continue sahaja dengan pengajarannya...tak pula mengajukan apa2 soalan kepada saya... ppheeewww..




conclusion: sila beri fokus 100% dalam kelas...


9.Kalau betul-betul tak tahu tapi nak tahu, buat solat sunat Istikharah... mengikut kata Wany HK, selalunya solat ini dilakukan sebelum tidur...lepas itu, insyaAllah mudah-mudahan bermimpi..mudah-mudahan Allah akan memberi petunjuk/petanda, jika baik natijahnya, boleh diteruskan tetapi jika tidak, tidak akan dilaksanakan..


hihi teringat kisah seorang rakan saya yang juga tidak dapat dikenalpasti yang ingin tahu siapa jodohnya. dia buat solat sunat Istikharah, lepas itu bermimpi...niatnya ... orang itu bukan dari Kyuem...tetapi bila bermimpi...semua muka yang termimpinya adalah budak kolejnya...hahahahahahahaha klakar klakar.....wah jodohnya di kyuem rupanya...dahlah bukan satu jodoh yang dimimpinya, ramai plak tuh...hahahahahaha...


NOTE to self and others....: ni penting...saya panggil tips ini... tips kepada yang ss...syok sendiri...

10.Remember that if you like someone, you can sometimes misread their signals in the hope that they like you back. For instance, a guy /girl who teases you in an affectionate way may act like that towards everybody and doesn't realise that he/she's making you swoon every time he /she pokes good-natured fun at you!


So, inilah kerja saya bila tak dapat carik 'x'bar tuh ape bila A'x'bar=a vector...

note to self lagi:


Forget about this... A level lagi penting kut....
nak gi buat solat sunat Istikharah la malam ini... :)

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